Can you have both!?
- johnbernardy01

- Oct 3, 2022
- 2 min read

Another interesting day to share some thoughts. Choosing between love and career, Can you have both? A lot of people in my generation and even the generation above choose their career over love. This is based on some cities or countries that I have been into sometimes but this can be a universal thing am not sure by the way. There has been a belief among us that you can’t have both a Career and Love at the same time. I have seen this narrative floating around the internet, a little bit in person too so it got me thinking is it true?? I somehow don’t agree with that, I believe some relationships will boost your career to a high level. Also, there are some relationships, or let's say toxic relationships that will end your career. But also being single doesn’t mean you will succeed. We should not feel that being in a relationship will make us fall or hinder us in our careers.
There are different reason that makes me say you can have both a career and love at the same time. First, a good relationship creates trust. The trust that you get makes you feel free and makes your brain more efficient for your career. A good relationship with your partner opens the door for social interaction that helps to boost your career productivity. We all believe people who wish to succeed are those who never stop growing. A good relationship will give you a chance to challenge yourself in your career. I believe every one of us deserves to succeed but it takes those who are ready to take risks. Taking risks means being ready to do what you think you can't do to achieve your goals. But it should some legal stuff, hahaha. Also, we can agree that having a good relationship is always a wake-up call to build a career. Am not trying to say that being single doesn’t help to have a career, it's better to be single and have a bright career than being in a toxic relationship that doesn’t support your career or that will end your career life. Lastly, I can say we can all succeed in life no matter what position we are in life meaning we can be in a relationship and still have a bright career but also we can choose not to be in a relationship and work for a career.
Also, this is just my point of view about Choosing between love and a career. Can we have both? Let me know what you think about it. This is just according to the simple research I had and some general knowledge acquired from the street that I wanted to share with you guys.

" Life is full of choices. Bad choices look easy and good choices look hard but they have every cute outcome. Be ready to make good you will never regret."
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Everything Goes Podcast
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I think u have a great point of view...keep posting..👍👍